How Will I Roam At Sea?
We just spent 2 days in a cabin in the middle of the mountains where Montana meets Idaho with our good friends, Pedro and Janaina. Jana’s mama from Brazil came, too (and rocked her first-ever snowshoe experience!), along with their 9-month-old, Clarice.
We skied in the sun, ate good food, drank nice wine, made merry. And we navigated skillfully around each other in the small space. I kept picturing all of us on a big boat instead of a in wood-fired log cabin, and each time I came back to this conundrum: “I won’t be able to pop on my cross-country skis and spend an hour wandering on my own when things get tight.” Hmmmmmm.

Rob and I drove straight to our respective offices from the cabin this morning, and by the close of the work day I was ready for some quiet time. I debated between hot yoga, a conditioning class or a walk. Easy choice: I’ll be doing a LOT of yoga in sauna-like conditions pretty soon, along with plenty of self-motivated conditioning and strength-training routines. One thing I won’t be doing a lot of is walking the hills alone.
As I set out from the backyard into the brisk spring evening, I pondered how much I need these alone moments to roam. For as long as I can remember, I’ve used walking as my way to explore physical landscapes as well as my mental landscape. I let my legs set their own pace as they roam through trees or grass. I let my mind wander freely as it picks through the daily joys or burdens.
How will I roam when we’re at sea?
I have no idea. My mind and body will still need to wander, but they’ll have to figure out how to do it with other people at my elbows and in the tight quarters of a small boat.
The good news: at least we’ll be moving at walking speed most of the time, which — come to think of it — is probably why I’m drawn to sailing as a means to roam.









TOILETRIES. Dr. Bronner’s liquid soap (doubles as shampoo), toothpaste, toothbrush, comb, hair bands, sunscreen, all-purpose lotion, bug repellent (Rob made natural bug goop), chapstick and towel.
We leave one month from tomorrow. Whoa. As the departure date approaches, the main question we hear (aside from “are you getting excited?!”) is “where, exactly, are you guys going?” Here’s the answer:



I’m sitting in the grungy hallway of a junior high school in the suburbs of Philadelphia. The buzzing fluorescent lights highlight the 1970s avocado-green tiles, and illuminate Rob and his brother, Brent, playing volleyball in the gym a few yards ahead of me.


A fellow Montanan — and friend of our friends — 


Since we decided not to buy our own sailboat (yet), I’m surprised by all these details. I mean, how hard can it really be to fill up a backpack and go play on the ocean for a year or two?
Storage area. If you can’t get rid of everything, build a storage space (we put up a wall with a locking door to use half of our garage as storage) or rent one.
3) It’s smarter. As our neighbor said when we explained the rationale for crewing the other night, “It’s basically like being engaged to make sure you want to get married.” Exactly. Why spend thousands of dollars on our own sailboat without making sure we really, really like being at sea for months on end first? Plus, this way we can test drive lots of sailboats to see what type fits us best. Basically, we’re planning to date boats for the next year or so.






